Lunch with Piolo, Dinner with Boy George
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The original article was published 11 years ago in the Philippine Star, May 15, 2005.
I’m reposting it here with edits because my old writing makes me cringe.

Lunch with Piolo, dinner with Boy George

In 2005, producer Tommy Ng texted me. He was looking for a modern house to shoot a print ad with either Piolo Pascual or Claudine Barretto. I offered my home.
After an ocular inspection, Tommy Ng asked: “O, who do you want: Piolo or Claudine?”
“What do you think?” I shot back.
“Tommy, do you honestly think I can brag about Claudine to my friends?”

The next day while reading the Star, I came across a press release saying Boy George was going to DJ at the NBC Tent with DJ Mark Vedo.
Boy George, my high-school crush, my idol! I used to dress like him, wear makeup like him, paint T-shirts and murals of him.

“Boy George ruined your life,” my Dad once told me.
“Because you dressed like him and became like that.”
I still do, actually.

me in the '80s Boy George

On Saturday night, my friend and I decided to stalk Boy George at the NBC Tent. We waited until 1 AM. My body was tired. We gave up when we heard that he would play his set at 2 AM.
But not before I saw Mimi Tan, an old schoolmate from Assumption. Mimi was one of the coolest girls in school. She and her sister Juliet had been taking care of Boy George and his group while in Manila, and I thanked my lucky stars I had been nice to Mimi.
She told me about a dinner they were planning for Boy George and invited me!

The following morning, Piolo Pasual arrived at our house for the 9 AM call time.
He was friendly, down-to-earth, easy to work with, and impossibly gorgeous.
I took these photos during the lunch break.

Piolo eating at home

During lunch, Mimi Tan called to confirm dinner with Boy George: 9 PM at the original Sala in Malate.
I went straight to Juan Sarte, makeup artist to the stars, and said, “Juan, makeup-an mo ko please. I have a dinner with Boy George!”
Juan said sure.

At 7 PM, while I sat on Juan’s makeup chair, Piolo was changing for the next layout. He wore black cargo jeans, two kinds of shoes on each foot, and no top. He was asking Juan which shoe to wear.
Now, Piolo is half-naked, I’m looking at his feet and trying very hard not to look up and stare at him. So help me God.
Piolo settled for the blue Converse and went back to work.

almost ready

After makeup and changing for dinner, I came out and Piolo said, “Uy, transformation!”
I left as they were wrapping up and rushed out to Malate.
This was 2005, so I arrived at Sala exactly 9 PM.
No sign of Boy George, only three tables with foreigners and our host, chef Colin Mackay.

early bird

Leah Puyat and Anton Barretto arrived. Then Pepper Teehankee, followed by Liza Ilarde and Elbert Cuenca.
To pass time we talked about New Wave bands. I told them that Mimi warned: Do NOT bring up the ’80s to Boy George. He doesn’t like it.

seat mates
L-R: Anton Barretto, Leah Puyat, Rhett Eala

Past 10 PM, they all came in: Mimi and her sister Juliet Tan with a bunch of foreigners, and as soon as I saw him, I let out a small scream: “Oh, my God! Oh, my God!” I had misty eyes.
Boy George sat in front of Pepper Teehankee who was sitting next to me. We shook hands and introduced ourselves. I told him I was a writer and fashion designer.
“What do we call you?” I asked.
“George,” he said simply.

A bread basket was on the table. Although my last meal was at 3 PM, I couldn’t bring myself to touch it, while George had good appetite. How could I? Here was the biggest influence of my teenage years and I was tongue-tied, paralyzed.
At one point George looked at me, I stared into his eyes and said, “I love you. I super love you.”
“Thank you, thank you,” said George, then changed the topic.
At that moment I felt like a dork and wanted to ostrich (bury my head in the sand).

More people arrived, like Rhett Eala, Angelo Villanueva, RS Francisco, Tim Yap, and Hindy and Gippy Tantoco
Hindy is a huge fan of Boy George. Upon shaking his hand Hindy said under her breath, “This is a dream come true.”
“What’s your dream come true?” asked Leah Puyat
“The man I love,” said George. And then he sang…
Maybe I shall meet him Sunday
Maybe Monday, maybe not
Still I’m sure to meet him one day
Maybe Tuesday will be my…good news day…


After teaching him basic bad words in Tagalog, we listened to his funny statements about Elton John, David Gest, and Cyndi Lauper. I wished I could’ve taken down notes, but Mimi had told us not to as George was very wary of press people.
At that time, George had been living in New York (“near Canal Street”) for one and a half years, having moved there to stage the musical Taboo which was based on the ’80s club scene and the story club icon Leigh Bowery.

Leigh Bowery and Boy George back in the day

George provided music and lyrics. It was nominated for four Tonys but didn’t win.
“It’s nice to be nominated for the Tonys,” he said, “but it’s nicer to win.”

He can walk around New York without being recognized.
“I don’t get dressed every day, I just look like a scruffy guy. It’s so easy to get attention but I don’t like attention. After 24 years it’s no longer a novelty.”

He talked about the flop event at the NBC Tent, saying only two people danced (apparently Hindy and her friend), the rest were just standing.
“I think all these rich people came in and just stood there like they were so uninterested. I don’t understand. It’s like going to a flower shop when you don’t even like flowers.”

From the Century Park Sheraton where they were staying, he walked unrecognized to Harrison Plaza where he saw a lot of “cheap stores.”
He hates the hot weather because “it does not agree with drag.”
He thought Manila was like India, where one saw a mix of modernity and poverty, but said he liked it and wanted to come back gain.

Then we talked about his clothing line B-Rude which launched in October 2004.
While living in New York, George started to make customized clothing for him and his friends, taught himself how to silkscreen, hand dye, iron-on, and appliqué. The result was unique one-off pieces with witty slogans and bold images.

Marc and George
Marc Vedo and Boy George in 2013

“B-Rude is my emotional rage with a dash of ‘tongue in chic’ in fashion form,” said George in his website. “I design clothes for those who like their reputation to arrive in the room ahead of them.”
At one point George asked me to fly to New York and do something for the line. He said he needed a designer of women’s wear, which I was. He said he would send me a package from London, and take it from there. In addition, he promised to e-mail Tim Yap and send RS Francisco a DVD on his life

Rhett Eala urged me to give George my calling card just as he was leaving Sala. Juliet said George wanted to stay longer but they had an early flight that morning to continue their tour in Jakarta, Singapore, Tokyo, London, then back to New York. I never heard back from him though.

lolo George

(To be continued)

Boy George/Culture Club are coming to Manila
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My friend Grace is much younger than me.
“Did you love growing up in the ’70s?” she recently asked.
“Not really, but I’m thrilled to have been part of the ’80s,” I said.
Because the ’80s were the greatest. I feel very blessed to have been a teenager during that time.
Manila was very backward during the ’80s. We didn’t have clothing stores for teenagers, so most teenagers dressed like their parents (in Lacoste shirts and Sperry Topsiders).
But my friends and I made our own clothes, that’s why a lot of my batch mates also became fashion designers.

During the ’80s we didn’t have big stars coming to Manila—unlike now when the likes of Taylor Swift would actually come here during their prime and not after.
And so Culture Club has never performed in Manila.
Boy George was one of my biggest influences growing up. This was them in the ’80s.

Culture Club

In 2005 I got to meet George briefly when he stopped by Manila for a solo DJ gig. I wrote about the encounter in Rogue magazine’s February 2016 issue. (I’ll post the article in a bit.)

Rogue/Boy George

It’s been 12 years since Boy George and Culture Club performed together in a concert and now they are going on a full tour that includes 40 cities across the United States, Canada, Mexico, Australia and Asia.
The band kicks off their reunion tour in Australia and will be in Manila on June 17 and 18, 2016 at the Araneta Coliseum.

Culture Club

Culture Club is composed of Boy George (vocals), Mikey Craig (bass guitar), Roy Hay (guitar and keyboards), and Jon Moss (drums and percussion).
I have never seen them perform live and I can’t wait to be there.
Culture Club featuring Boy George Live In Manila is a production of Royale Chimes Concerts & Events Inc. Tickets available at Ticketnet (Tel. 911-5555).
Use your BDO credit/debit card to enjoy a 15% discount on tickets.
For more information, call 0918) 497-2121 and (0906) 418-0786.

(To be continued)

H&M announces Kenzo collaboration
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H&M is proud to announce that its next designer collaboration will be with KENZO Paris.
Creative Directors Humberto Leon and Carol Lim will bring the spirit of KENZO to H&M, by designing collections for women and men as well as accessories.
KENZO x H&M will be available in over 250 selected H&M stores worldwide, as well as online, from November 3, 2016.

Kenzo x H&M

“We can’t wait to share the world of KENZO x H&M with everyone, with all of its creativity, fun and love of fashion,” said Ann-Sofie Johansson, Creative Advisor at H&M.

“With this collaboration with H&M we want to think big, push the boundaries and bring the new energy of KENZO to everyone around the world,” said Humberto Leon and Carol Lim, Creative Directors at KENZO.

Kenzo x H&M

To know more about the collaboration, click HERE.

Jaclyn José just won Best Actress at the 69th Cannes Film Festival
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While you were sleeping, Jaclyn José was awarded Best Female Actress/Best Performance by an Actress at the Closing Ceremony of the 69th Cannes Film Festival.
Jaclyn won for her role as a sari-sari store owner forced to sell drugs to survive in Brilliante Mendoza’s MA’Rosa.

The 52-year-old veteran Filipina actress was a surprise winner despite lukewarm reviews of the film.
But the jury defended their choice, which some critics had thought too small a role.
“The critics were wrong,” said jury member Donald Sutherland. “It’s a big-time leading role.”
“She’s the film,” said Arnaud Desplechin. “She broke my heart.”


Jury members included George Miller (Director, Writer, Producer – Australia), Arnaud Desplechin (Director, Writer – France), Kirsten Dunst (Actress– United States), Valeria Golino (Actress, Director, Writer, Producer – Italia), Mads Mikkelsen (Actor – Denmark), László Nemes (Director, Writer – Hungaria), Vanessa Paradis (Actress, Singer – France), Katayoon Shahabi (Producer – Iran), Donald Sutherland (Actor – Canada)

Among the strong contenders for Best Actress were Hayley Squires (I, Daniel Blake) and Maria Dragus (Graduation), but the rules do not allow the jury to award more than one prize for winners of the top three categories.

Watch the trailer:

And the emotional Filipino ensemble after the red carpet screening last May 19th.

Here’s the complete list of winners in the 69th Cannes Film Festival:

Palme d’Or Short Metage: Timecode , Juanjo Giménez
Golden Camera: Divine, Houda Benyamina
Gold Award of Honor: Jean-Pierre Léaud
Best Actor: Shahab Hosseini, for Customer, Asghar Farhadi
Best actress: Jaclyn Jose, for Ma’Rosa, Brillante Mendoza
Jury Prize: American Honey, Andrea Arnold
Screenplay: Asghar Fahradi for Customer
Award for Best Director: tie for Bachelor of Cristian Mungiu and Personal Shopper, Olivier Assayas
Grand Jury Prize: Just the end of the world by Xavier Dolan
Golden Palm: I, Daniel Blake, Ken Loach


To know more about MA’Rosa in competition, click HERE.

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