Hey guys, I’m about to do something I’ve been thinking about for a while now. I’m going on a break from blogging.
I’ve been blogging since 2001 and I haven’t taken a break for a long time. I even discussed it with my children.
Ben, 15, said I should definitely take a break.
Chris, 9, was worried. “What will you do mommy?”
“I want to sleep for a month.”
“But what if your friends want to visit you?”
“Then I will wake up.”
Funny, Chris thought I was literally going to sleep for a month.
So much has been going on. As I write this, I am nursing a migraine. My eyesight has gotten worse overnight and I saw Dr. Alnette Tan earlier at American Eye. Dr. Alnette said though my eyes have a 75 grade on the left, they are looking good. No cataract. Just normal signs of aging.
Here’s what I plan to do during my break:
1) Drink less Coke. Shrink my tummy. Change my diet.
2) Lose weight.
3) Clean my house.
4) Take care of the children’s needs. Take care of me.
5) Collect money, cause many people owe me…. so hard to collect. I have enough money to collect to support my lifestyle until I figure out what I need to do next.
Hopefully these will improve mind and body. I haven’t been feeling well in a while. I just want to stop looking at numbers. Social media has been cluttering my life.
For a while now I was blogging to support my shopping, but now I realize I can do with less stuff, less clutter.
I don’t know what the next step is, but I leave it up to God. I just want to clear my mind of junk and clutter. It must be done.
Meanwhile I want to thank all of you who have been with me through many years. You know how to reach me.
Note: Originally published on Mar 28, 2013, I decided to repost this because after a recent high school reunion, I realized some of my classmates were still using the words “maong” and “parlor.”
I gently reminded them to say “denim” and “salon” an that using such words now will date us as having been born in the ’60s, which will not sound cool to our kids who say “beast” when they think you’re wearing something cool from like Supreme or Thrasher.
So this is dedicated to high school friends particularly Assumption HS ’84, section 4-3: Please read below and get to know words that will date you. Kthanks. Love you. Bye!
My mom said something funny after buying a pair of Margiela flats last Sunday.
“Type ko to. Gusto kong mag-groovy for a change,” she told my dad.
Groovy. I haven’t heard that word in years.
“The last time I heard that was in Scooby Doo,” pointed out my sister Ana, 21.
I remember the first time I heard the word “type” to mean “like.”
It was the ’70s. My parents and I were watching Miss Philippines on our black and white TV, and my dad points out a contestant and says, “Ayan. Type ko yan.”
I was confused. The image I had in my head was a typewriter.
I had a recent conversation with my sons about the word “epic,” which I hate.
“Epic” to them means “great” or “awesome.” While to me it means “long narrative poem with a hero. You know, like Iliad, Odyssey, Homer?” I told my kids.
Unfortunately, this was the Homer my son had in mind.
So what are the words our parents still say that sound funny to us?
I made a survey on Twitter and found out my folks are just as funny as your folks.
SM Shoemart. My son asked me why some people call SM Shoemart. I told him SM stands for Shoemart because the owner of Shoemart, who happens to be the richest man in the Philippines, Mr. Henry Sy, didn’t have shoes while growing up. So he worked hard until he opened a shoe store, which became a department store, which became a mall and so on. And the name SM Shoemart stuck, as in we’ve got it all for you.
Copon bond or coupon bond.
Some folks actually call it kokomban, in reference to bond paper.
According to Investopedia, a coupon bond is “a debt obligation with coupons attached that represent semiannual interest payments. Also known as a bearer bond.”
That said, I still don’t know why people call it coupon bond.
Kendle. This kind.
Scissor Salad. Back in the ’70s, it was a popular dish in my grandmother’s house.
Chit. Not the play money you use to pay in the school canteen or fair. “Chit” is another word for “check” or “bill.”
Jingle. Not referring to Christmas bells, but referring to a call of nature, as in “Teka muna. Jumi-jingle pa siya.”
Picha pie. You know, like Shakey’s.
Cutex. That’s ’70s for nailpolish
Kwacker Oats. They’re good for you.
Prigider. Taken from an old brand of refrigerators.
Colgate. A generic name for toothpaste—even if it’s Close Up.
Station waygon. A popular car in the ’70s with a roof extended to the back.
Transistor. What everyone used to listen to music, news, and dramas.
Nessels Cream.Puede ring Nessels Crunch.
Johnson’s buds for cotton buds. I still say Q-tips.
Combo. Not your spaghetti and chicken meal at McDonalds, but a band, like rock band.
Step-in. Backless footwear, or mules
AC/DC for bisexual. Another funny term for bisexual: silahis.
With the aim of raising awareness for lupus and supporting patients and their families, Democratic Independent Workers Association (DIWA) Representative Emmeline Aglipay-Villar launched the Hope For Lupus Foundation last December 4, 2016 at the Cultural Center of the Philippines.
Lupus is an autoimmune disease which attacks healthy cells and tissues.
Advocating the importance of early detection and treatment of the disease, DIWA Rep. Aglipay said the cause is close to her heart because she was diagnosed with Lupus in 2007.
“My personal experience is a testament to how early detection can prevent major organ damage of kidneys and blood vessels,” she said. She emphasized that awareness of Lupus and its symptoms will allow patients to seek proper treatment at the earlier stages to avert major organ damage and save lives.
“The lack of awareness has already cost so many lives. With Hope For Lupus, no more lives should be lost due to a lack of information and awareness about the disease,” said DIWA Rep. Aglipay-Villar.
L-R: PDGen. Edgar Aglipay (ret.), Mrs. Mawie Aglipay, Camille Villar, Sen. Cynthia Villar, Rep. Emmeline Aglipay-Villar with daughter Emma Therese, DPWH Sec. Mark Villar
The foundation’s launch featured an exhibit entitled Lupus Warriors and a musical by Nicanor Tiongson, in partnership with the University of the Philippines—PGH’s Rheumatology Department. Mabining Mandirigma is a steam-punk dance musical depicting the life of revolutionary leader Apolinario Mabini. Proceeds from the show will benefit the Bridging Lupus Fund for the benefit of indigent lupus patients in PGH.
Together with co-founders Lila Shahani, Melanie Cuevas, who both have lupus, rheumatologists, Dr. Paulo Lorenzo and Dr. Ging Racaza, Sidney Salazar and Nadine Bernardino, DIWA Rep. Aglipay-Villar hopes that with the foundation, they will be able to establish a Lupus-free Philippines.
For more information, go to http://hopeforlupus.org.ph or call 721-98-55.
While Japan and the United States are obviously richer countries than the Philippines, there are certain privileges we have at home that people have to struggle with abroad.
Like nannies for instance. It’s normal for us Filipinos to have nannies or yayas at home, since the day we were born. You don’t even have to be rich to have a yaya. Some yayas even stay forever, long enough to take care of the babies of their former wards.
In my house we have nannies to pick up the kids from school. We have a cook to prepare our meals and maids to clean the house. It’s completely normal to have these.
But watch how Corinne of the U.S. show, The Bachelor is frowned upon as a spoiled brat or freak because she still has a nanny.
Compared to other countries, I think the Philippines is very gay friendly. We’re pretty used to seeing gay men that nobody really gets their panties in a twist whenever they see girly boys at the mall.
But in some cultures it’s not that easy. Take this “genderless danshi” who says, “For us, our fashion choices aren’t necessarily easy—putting on makeup and picking outfits. To be frank, we are shamed a lot from other people.”
He goes through lengths to say he is heterosexual, while explaining his preference for manicured nails, bobbed hair and cosmetics.
If he were in the Philippines, no explanation necessary.