To all the moms who love unconditionally

As a mother of three, I’m blessed to have given birth to two of them, while the third one was delivered by the stork. :)
Both of my pregnancies were difficult. Everyone around me suffered, due to the usual aches and pains, morning sickness that lasts all day, worries and anxiety.
I worried during 38 weeks of pregnancy, worried with each ultrasound and doppler scan, even if the doctor says everything looks normal.
When the scans appear normal, I worry that my child will be born with a big black birthmark on the face.
I stop worrying only when the baby is born and placed on my chest. I check to see that the face has no marks, and then I fall asleep. I love newborns.

Markus

Post-partum, I used to worry that my baby would get sick and die, but somehow we survived all the sicknesses and hospital confinements.
There were nights I spent Googling about other moms who had lost a child or given birth to children with special needs.
I’m grateful that God didn’t give me a big cross to carry while raising our kids. I just deal with the usual fighting that occurs between siblings or worry when a yaya has to go.
That’s why I have great respect and admiration for moms who are given children with special needs, especially those who decide to keep their baby despite medical odds.
I found this video through my cousin’s Facebook. It tells of a young mom who gave birth to a baby with a rare condition that many people ask: Why did she choose to have the child instead of aborting?
After dealing with people’s stares and whispering behind their back, she created this video to let people know she loves her child just the way he is.
This post is dedicated to all moms who love their children, no matter what.
Happy mother’s day to all, and maybe happy tears.

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  • http://currystrumpet.blogspot.com/ currystrumpet

    Wow. That photo of her laughing baby hit me in the gut. Despite everything, he still finds reason to smile and laugh. Amazing.

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  • GML

    I always visit your blog Ms. Cecile (while Im at work :) ) when I accidentally saw it in another blog, from there, everyday I visit you :) . This video made me realized how lucky & blessed I am to have a beautiful daughter eventhough I raised her alone. I post this in my FB wall :)

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    CVS Reply:

    thank you :)

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  • Sugar

    There’s a big lump in my throat while watching this.. Good Job mommas!

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  • http://twitter.com/Miss_Jolina Jolina

    this made me teary eyed… truly heartwarming…

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  • http://www.facebook.com/arlynasumen.baje Arlyn Asumen Baje

    Greetings from Trinidad & Tobago!!!  Thank you Ms. C for sharing this…   I cried the whole time i was watching the video….

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  • http://twitter.com/schoolkidph Roxanne Aquino

    Happy Mother’s Day! I find it a real treat when you post about your kids (especially funny ones) or posts about parenting as it shows how much you really love your kids. I also realize I’m not alone in not being an overbearing/doting mom.  But the way you care for children, I think that even if you had a child born with a big birthmark on the face (like me), you would love him just the same. I hope you’re having a super day!

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    CVS Reply:

    oh I’m sorry :) don’t mean to offend you. thanks for you kind words :)

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    Roxanne Aquino
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    None taken :) I’m having a great life with it, thank God (and brands O’Leary and Artdeco too!).  I worried about it too during each of my pregnancies, afraid that I’ve passed it on. 

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  • http://chenmeicai.blogspot.com Chai Chen

    Truly inspirational, Ms. C! Happy Mom’s Day!
    I also saw that video the other day. Made me cry lots (T_T)

    Enjoy your day! (^_^) God bless!

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  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=648511028 Monzy Almenanza

    Thank you for sharing Cecile. This brought me to tears. Happy Mother’s Day!

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  • http://twitter.com/danielisbored Daniel Lampa

    So touching ;) Looking at the mom’s smile made me teary eyed. I Am not a parent but I know how it is because my Mom loves me unconditionally.

    Happy Mother’s Day Cecile! 
    :)

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  • http://carmelyn.blogspot.com/ Aiaiaibuhay

    :) I used to worry that much too but it did me good ‘cos my son was diagnosed with Autism early enough at 2 1/2 yo. After that I’ve been trying to just surrender all to God otherwise I’d go crazy. Happy Mother’s day to us!!! :) It’s a beautiful video btw it made me weep I can hardly open my eyes hehe..

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